True love boils down to one thing. Acceptance. Only when you accept yourself can anyone else accept you as well. If you are finding people do not love you (because they are having trouble accepting you) you will find it is because you are not accepting yourself.
How
No one else can “fix” what we ourselves are feeling inside. Only we can. The first step is awareness. Think honestly whether you truly do accept yourself?
Do you accept your body? Not just a couple of aspects like your hair or your hands, but all of it? Do you accept you crooked toes, knobbly knees and stomach that may hold too much extra weight? Most people do not accept all of their physical selves.
Do you accept what you do for a living? Are you grateful for the skills you were born with and the skills we all have for bettering ourselves? Or do we beat ourselves up and keep saying that we are not good enough or worse that we are stupid at that?
When you accept each aspect of your body you will find you will readily accept others. They will feel this acceptance (and translate this as loving thought) and readily accept you.
When you are grateful for your own unique skills and use them to the best of their ability you are appreciating them to the full. More opportunities will then come your way.
Acceptance is the heart of true love. When you embrace all you are and all you do others will do the same. The love you have for yourself will be returned to you from those around you and life in general.
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