A lot of romance advice ask you to do things that can be rather gimmicky. While this is a valid approach, another way to be more romantic relies less on planned external activities and more on improving how you interact with your partner. This improvement or enhancement is often called charm.
If you’re a plain spoken, matter of fact type of person and you start treating your partner with charm, you’re going to see big improvements in your love life. Contrast is very powerful when it comes to making your woman take notice. She’s going to be very intrigued by the new you.
If you aren’t blessed with the gift of charm, there’s still hope because it’s something that can be learned. Three tips:
1.) Take note of what makes her feel good or smile.
Even if you’ve known her for years, there’s still subtleties about her that you may be unaware of. There are also day to day things or things of the moment that makes her feel good.
Make an effort to observe these things. If you say or do anything that brightens her up, do more of it.
Make the effort to remember these things for future use. She’ll be immensely pleased when you remember even the smallest of details about her.
2.) Cultivate a great sense of humor.
Another way to make her laugh and smile is saying humorous things. You don’t have to act like a clown, just look for the lighter side of life. Being playfully silly can work very well.
Be careful of her vulnerabilities or insecurities. Humor is a very spontaneous thing that doesn’t allow much time for reflection on appropriateness.
3.) Show exuberance toward living your life.
Look for the good side of people and things. Relish every occasion and enjoy the moment. Be enthusiastic about and pour lots of energy into whatever you’re doing.
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