I’m sure you’ve heard that you should avoid “ordinary boring conversational topics” when flirting. Experts will tell you that it’s a sure way to make the girl yawn. And that’s no way to get her to remember you after you leave.
This is wrong in my view. I
Which “typical” questions are at issue here?
What do you do?
What’s your major?
Do you have kids?
Where did you grow up?
Of course you don’t want to ask question after question like this, or she’ll feel like she’s on a job interview. But there’s a right way to go about asking these questions and still flirt well.
This is the magic formula:
BORING QUESTION FLIRTING RULE: If you ask a “boring question”, you must PLAY with her answer.
When I meet a new woman whom I’m attracted to, I often ask her about her occupation or field of study.
And then, I play with her answer.
Here’s an example:
If she says she’s a massage therapist, I say, “Oh good, so if I suddenly get the worst cramp ever in my hand, you’d totally be able to heal me, right?”
She laughs. She feels like you value her for something other than her looks. And you frame the interaction as one of her being ready to SERVE you in some way.
Don’t worry about every guy using this line after reading this article either. Women never get tired of this kind of playful role-playing.
Take this approach for a spin. Use it on women you’re interested in, and even one’s you’re not interested in. It doesn’t hurt to get the practice in, and put a smile on someone’s face.
Imagine making a little old lady’s day with this line: “Goodness gracious, I just know that, if you were my Grandma, you’d bake me cookies all the time, even when my mother said not to. Wouldn’t you?” They all love it!
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