As a man, nothing beats the feeling of knowing that you’re adept at the moves when it comes to women, dating, attraction and relationships. But what if it’s been years since you have gone on a bar to meet single women because you have been attached for months or years? O
Naturally, you would want to make a good first impression. You don’t want to come off as being too boring to make small talk with – but you don’t want to appear too stuffy, either. Sometimes, it’s the way that you actually appear to them which instantly becomes a turn off. These might sound like too many things to remember – but you cannot deny the fact that women are truly complex creatures that even the casanovas of the world sometimes have problems attracting them. An approach which works for one woman might not work on another. Basically, your best bet would be to avoid some of the most common mistakes that men commit when trying to get the attention of a beautiful woman.
Approaching them while you’re a bit too drunk. This is a mortal sin as far as women are concerned. If you have a baby sister, how do you think you will feel when she gets approached by some random guy who slurs his words and stinks of whisky breath? More than just the safety issue, it’s that feeling of being stalked by a drunk stranger which is the last experience that you would want to give to a woman – especially if she’s hot.
The best rule of thumb to follow when borrowing confidence from alcohol is to probably have a couple of drinks – just enough to make you loosen up and gather the courage to walk up to a woman you’ve been eyeing. After that, keep your alcohol consumption to a minimum and make a conscious effort to still be standing up if and when she finally allows you to walk her home.
The sweaty and not-so-pleasantly-smelling guy. Yes, bars are crowded and you need to showcase your moves if you want to meet and start dating a good-looking woman in a club or bar. But just because it’s hot and crowded doesn’t mean that you should allow your clothes to stick to your skin too much – or spray on too much cologne that you’d end up with a too overpowering smell by the end of the night. So lay off on the cologne and make sure to wear clothes that will keep you cool despite all the dancing.
The sloppy dresser. You may not have given this too much of a thought – but when you see a woman looking all nice, hot and primped up when going out with their girlfriends, they looked like that because they exerted the effort. As a guy, you need to return the favor and spend some time grooming yourself, too – and actually spending some time to think about what you’re going to wear. If you do your best to look good and not be the sloppy dresser who turns women off, then you’ll have better chances of having a hottie leave the bar with you at the end of the night.
Not making good conversation. In a world where women easily get tired of men engaging in boring small talk, it definitely would not pay off if you appear too stuffy, too full of yourself or too bland. Loosen up a bit, have fun, listen to what she has to say and lay off the heavy topics. Let the inner casanova in you emerge. You’re merely in the meet-up stage so there’s absolutely no need to get into anything deep. It’s fine to engage in some fun, flirtatious conversation and give her a good first impression of you as a man.
All in all, learning about the top mistakes that you should avoid when it comes to attraction and dating should be the secret of your success with women. If you want to be in on what more of these techniques are, check out the tips that we will be dishing out on our website. Your level of success will leave more women wanting more of you – so check out our site now at http://casanovasystem.org !
George Andrews is a relationships and dating guru who is a published author of numerous articles – both online and offline. Learn how to achieve success in the dating world by subscribing to his blog and checking out his regular e-mail updates.
