Loneliness is all around us. Even though we find ourselves in a planet with billions of people, many of these people live alone. Others, who may live with others, still harbor extreme loneliness on a continual basis. In the case of woman, we find many searching for advice on:
b) How to make a man love you and you alone
c) How to love a man all the time
d) How to love a guy
e) How to make a man love you completely
A man is a very different “type of animal”. Many a woman has tossed and turned in her bed trying to figure that special guy out, and show him that they love him. Are gifts and presents the only what that you can show that special guy in your life that you care? Hardly. In this article we will be examining and exploring the various ways in which it is possible to tell that special man in your life that you love him through and through…
Yummy Food…
We have heard that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. This is true for many men. Now we won’t go as far as to say that food is the way to make a man fall in love with you, but every man appreciates not only good food, but the thought that goes into the preparation of that special meal.
1) To get the ball rolling we will start with the first meal of the day, which is breakfast. How about making some heart-shaped pancakes? If he’s not into pancakes you could do the same thing with toast. You could go one step further and even trim the butter that will accompany the meal into a heart shape. Heart-shaped butter on heart-shaped pancakes or toast. Yum.
2) Lunch is the next meal of the day. A lot of guys take their lunch from home, and this provides you with a great opportunity to show that you love him. Why not make him his special meal for lunch, and top it off with a note saying “I love you”? Will he ever be surprised…especially when he is looking to unpack that same ole sandwich and such…
3) The last meal of the day is the evening meal, at least for most people. Even though it’s the last meal of the day, this doesn’t mean that it has to be the least romantic. You could start things off with a dinner via candlelight. Play some romantic and soothing music in the background. That great little bottle of wine. Oh, and don’t forget to make him that special meal that he often raves about.
4) Snacks are often eaten throughout the day, but a romantic snack is a very memorable invent. I wonder, did you have that special treat that you ate together when you first started dating? An ice cream cone and a walk along the lake perhaps? Nobody says that you can’t recreate this experience again by “retracing your steps”. Bring on the romantic snack!
Showing Affection
We all need to know that people care about us, and men are included in this group. Sure, they may be the “strong, silent type”, but they can still get a teary eye when they watch a sad or romantic movie. To show that special guy that you love him, here are a few ways:
1) You know, a hug says so much. When he least expects it, why not come up from behind and put your arms around him and give him a nice hug. You can whisper “I love you” in his ear. Don’t overdo this mind you…just once in a while so that it will be something really unique and special.
2) Listen, plain and simple. So many times when the guy comes home from work his ear falls off from the events of “your day”. He probably wants to relax a bit and not hear all about your woes and worries. Sit back and listen to what he has to say for a change. Instead of trying to change the subject all the time, truly listen, and offer “I’m listening responses”, like “I see” or “Hmmm”…
3) There are some guys who don’t want to talk when they get home from work. They want to unwind. Give them that time. Let them relax and compose themselves. They will probably talk your ear off once they get a chance to relax a bit, but give them their space when they first come home.
4) Guys (at least quite a few of them) love a good relaxing massage. Are you gifted in giving a massage? Why not unleash this talent? Start off with the back, and run your fingers through his hair. Give him every opportunity to tell you what he likes and what he doesn’t like. What a great way to unwind and prepare for the evening…
Activities With Romance
Many guys are very adventurous. They love to explore and try out new things. They love to test their manliness. Here are a few things that you can do together…
1) Get out of that “box” you have placed yourself in and do something that you would not normally do. Is that special guy in your life into football? Here’s an idea. Sit down on the couch next to him and ask him some questions. Here are a few to get you started. What is a quarterback? What is a first down? He will be shocked at first, but since he loves his sport, he will love providing you with the answers you are looking for. What if he’s not into football, but likes baseball or basketball or hockey? Same approach applies. You might want to do a bit of research beforehand to determine what questions to ask.
2) Does your man have chores that he needs to do? Many guys have something that they need to do around the house on a regular basis. Let’s suppose this happens to be taking out the garbage every week. Why not surprise him by taking it out for him? You could say that since he is especially busy this week you thought that you would help him out. Be sure to indicate why…he may think you really enjoy it and you have found you have a new chore around the house.
3) Why not engage in a pillow fight? For most of us a pillow fight brings back memories of our childhood and jumping up and down on the bed. Who says we have to leave this activity behind once we lose our baby teeth and leave home? When you are lying in bed one night, perhaps watching the television, why not just grab your pillow and give him a good wallop? He might be really involved in what he is watching so you had probably better gauge his mood before you do. Who knows? You might have “hit him” at the right time and in the right place, and with his childhood memories reignited, you get yours and get yours good. Let the pillow fight begin!
Give Him Compliments
We all love to get compliments. We like to hear that others like our clothes, our jewelry, our hair, our “whatever”. Do you know how to compliment a guy? Here are a few ways:
1) Compliment your guy when you are out in public. Say nice things about him. Tell your friends what a special guy he is. Tell them how hard he works and how much he cares. You know, word will eventually get back to him. He will be very happy that all of this finer attributes have been noticed by others.
2) Is that special guy of yours into clothes? Does he fancy himself a great dresser? If so, he will appreciate the fact that others notice his great sense of style. Take special note of any new clothes that he is wearing, and be sure that he knows you notice.
3) Is there anything that the man in your life does that you really appreciate? Perhaps a certain chore around the house? Maybe he does the dishes? Maybe he’s good at taking the baby out for a walk? Maybe he makes dinner from time to time? If there is something that he does that you really appreciate, make sure that you let him know.
4) Why not leave little romantic notes in places that he will find them. On the mirror in the bathroom perhaps? Here’s an idea, why not put a note on the steering wheel of his car? He will notice it as he leaves for work. It could say something as simple as “I Love You”. He will be smiling all the way to work.
Get Him A Present
Gift giving is usually reserved for special occasions or holidays. Who says gifts can’t be given at other times? How much more special are those gifts that are given at other times of the year. Let us get you started in your gift giving adventure. We have searched the web and have come up with some gift ideas that we think are very special and unique. How about giving that special man one of these gems:
Our Way Cool Pick #1 – Is that special man in your life into experiencing the outdoors? Perhaps he likes to fish or hike or hunt or camp? I bet that you worry about him when he is away, right? You realize that he might get lost or hurt or “whatever”. What will you do then? Well here is a great gem of an item that we came across. We didn’t even know that something like this existed. The “Satellite Messenger” is a small electronic device (lightweight at a mere 8oz) that will give him the ability to track his adventures and travels into the great outdoors. This device will help keep you up-to-date on his current location and his status as well. What does all this mean? It means that you will know where he is, and if he is in serious trouble as well. How much is this piece of mind worth? This little device can call for help, so it might even save his life one day. We’re not the only ones who think this is a great gift idea. Backpacker Magazine gave it their 2008 Editor’s Choice Award. Considering what “peace of mind” this little gadget will bring you, it might be just as much a gift for you as it is for him. Check out our blog for further details and ordering information.
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Way Cool Pick #3 – Guys love their cars. They will often tell you of their favorite car. They might not be able to afford one of these cars mind you, but they would like to have one none-the-less. You might not be able to afford one of these cars either, but why not get him the next best thing. DieCast Car Models have been selling exact replicas of cars online since the year 2001. From Fords to Ferraris, from Toyotas to Lamborghinis, from “this car” to “that car”, they seem to have all makes and models. These are not just mere models mind you, they are MODELS. If that special guy in your life is a lover of cars, don’t miss the opportunity to see what this great company has to offer. Check out our blog for more details and ordering information.
Our Conclusion
We’re going to wrap up this article now. Has it been helpful? Have you been provided with enough examples of how to show that special man that you love him? If you would like more info, check out our blog. It goes into greater detail than we can possibly relay in a single article. If you would like to learn of more wonderful presents for men, or more information on those items we have mentioned above, check out www.WonderfulPresentsForMen.com. For all those UNIQUE Christmas gifts you are looking for, check out: www.ExcellentChristmasList.com.
All the best in loving that special guy in your life…
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