Many a guy has been at a nightclub, seen a hot girl and thought, “Wow! She really works those boobies, bouncy bouncy.”
Next, he chugged down some liquid courage and strutted up to her. But within a blink of an eye, she shot him down.
He scurried off with the imperative o
Maybe you’ve had a similar experience? I’ve had dozens. I used to be so petrified to pick up women that I thought I had the words “I’m the world’s biggest loser” push pinned to my forehead.
Meeting and approaching women is no easy business for those who haven’t mastered the necessary skills. Let’s take a look at why this is so.
Realize this: We approach women in the wake of their cuteness – and they know it. Without them uttering a single word, they hook us in.
Half the time, even if you find them less attractive than the stench of foot and ass combined, they’ll still genuinely believe you’re hitting on them.
But this, my friend, is about to change…
Seeing most men pick up a woman is more embarrassing than stooling oneself in public. Think of the woman as a pro fisherman with tasty bait and the man as an unlucky fish who’s minutes away from being flayed, sauteed, and eaten for dinner.
Even if he’s a fighter, it’s too late – he’s already on the hook (albeit, if he happens to be her physical type, he’s got a shot at success).
I’m also a fish – but an F-ed up, twisted, alien barracuda. Just when they feel that they have me on their hook I start throwing bait at them.
They chomp down and – hot diggity – I’ve got them on my hook and I’m reeling them in.
Here’s an example. When at a nightclub or bar, my eyes rove around looking for a high foot traffic area – near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio, for example. When a girl struts past me I’ll bump her with my elbow.
Next, I’ll complain, “Ow… you hurt me.”
A bit flustered, the lovely lady will put her hand on my shoulder and gush, “I’m so sorry.”
I’ll tease, “You can touch me but first you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.”
This is not only a bundle of fun but also a powerful means of emotionally hooking a woman.
When the average man’s groin fills with lust for a sexy vixen, he starts coming up with ways to win her over.
In plain English, she’s hooked them in. Anything they do to win her over, reels them even closer.
But I did the opposite: I set the frame that I’m the Prize and she’s the suitor trying to win me over.
Here’s a universal truth about dating and attraction: In every male-female interaction, only one person can be the Prize. Two people can’t chase each other at the same time.
You need to put yourself in the role of the Prize and the woman in role of the suitor working to win you over.
Josh Lubens, a world renowned relationship expert, writes under the penname Swinggcat and has coached men how to pick up women for over ten years. At his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.
