It’s happened to all of us… and it’s no fun…
A girl with more legs than a bucket full of chicken catches you dead in your tracks.
A body and face you only miss gawking at on days that end with Y. Her hair, a monument to hairdresser perfection.
You may
Now for the part that’s more gruesome than a baby lamb halfway through fleecing and slaughtering…
You come back to reality and realize this sexy vixen is right in front of you.
Your tongue is tied into a knot. In this moment, you feel like you’ve got the conversation skills of Forrest Gump.
“If only I had the perfect memorized line at my beck and call, I could entrance this sexy vixen,” you may be thinking.
Maybe.
However…
If you gave a group of guys the same pick up line, the results would be fascinating. Some will experience horrifying rejection. Others will use it and be making sweet monkey love with a woman in no time.
Something else to consider…
Have you ever watched natural ladies men approach women? You may have noticed that many didn’t use a pick up line.
When they do use one, it’s so bad, they have cheese wiz oozing out of every orifice.
But here’s my point…
It’s totally kosher to use pick up lines.
What you say isn’t responsible for sparking a sexual interaction between you and a woman.
So what’s the key?
Get a face transplant, buddy?
Just joking.
Here’s what to do…
When out hitting the single scene trenches, observe the men who suck up all the female attention.
Don’t focus “what” they say.
Instead, pay attention to how they speak and act around beautiful women.
Years ago, I did this and discovered certain patterns of behavior all ladies men exhibit when meeting and attracting women.
In this article, I don’t have time to share them all.
But to get you started, here are two…
1) Get out of your head:
Ladies men are extroverted perceivers . Instead of worrying about getting rejected, they expend their mental energy observing women they’d like to meet and attract.
Here’s an exercise for doing this…
Go to a bar and instead of talking to women, spend a night observing all the funny things in your environment. This will move your focus of attention away from the negative thoughts in your head and onto your environment where it belongs.
2) When they see a woman they like, they approach right away:
When most men see an attractive woman, their mind floods with a stampede of worries, such as: “Am I too short or too tall for her?” Will she embarrass me in front of everyone?” “Does she have a boyfriend?” and so on The longer they wait, the more cancerous thoughts burrow their way into their noggin, making even more difficult to approach. Don’t fall victim to this.
When you see a girl you like, take no more than three seconds to approach.
Josh Lubens, a world renowned dating expert, writes under the penname Swinggcat and has coached men how to pick up women for over ten years. At his website, you can get pick up lines and dating advice that’ll get you women most men think are out of their league.
