Do you know what type of guys girls find attractive?
Most men think being attractive to women is about possessing a list of material characteristics.
At first glance, this makes sense. Listen in on a herd of ladies chattering on about what they look for in a man. They&
Yet many of these women will sleep with and marry guys with none of these characteristics.
How do we resolve the paradox?
Here’s the answer: the attributes women think they want in a man and the attributes that unconsciously drive them to see a man as a Prize bear little resemblance.
I’m going to talk about one of these attributes: assuming a girl sees you as the Prize from the moment you meet her.
In the movie Empire Strikes Back there’s a scene where Han Solo is about to be frozen in carbonite.
Here’s how George Lucas originally wrote the scene:
Princess Lea gushes, “I love you.”
Han howls back, “I love you too.”
Lucas thought this was romantic. But there’s actually nothing special about it.
So the day they filmed the scene, Harrison Ford, the actor who plays Han Solo, veered off script and did a little ad libbing.
When Princess Leia said, “I love you,” like a pimp he responded with a terse, “I know.”
I’d venture to say, this one line made the movie.
Whenever females hear Harrison Ford deliver the words “I know,” their hearts thuds with excitement.
Don’t women think this is a bit arrogant?
Probably.
But get this: when a man sees himself as a Prize, women are hard-wired to sexual respond to him.
Will this work if a woman thinks I’m ugly?
Yes. Beliefs are contagious. If your belief is strong enough, she’ll start believing it too.
Josh Lubens, a dating expert, writes under the penname Swinggcat and specializes in teaching the art of seduction. Visit his site if you want to get some free seduction tips.
