What kind of mistakes do women make with men? In fairness to women, most “mistakes” are actually a matter of misunderstanding between how differently men and women communicate and interpret between the sexes. A woman might be dating a man she really likes and thinks everything
1. Calling/Texting/Emailing Too Often
While it’s a lot easier to keep tabs on your guy these days with cell phones and email, many women overdo it. However, although you may love texting him 20 times per day and following it up with an email if he doesn’t text you back right away, you may be doing your relationship more harm than good. Texting is convenient but it can also become annoying to a guy. When you’re in the first phase of loved up coupledom, your guy may be into constant calls, texts and emails as much as you are.
But after a while, the first rush of new love starts to wear off and instead of your constant calls and emails being viewed as wonderful and lovely it’s quite possible that they might start becoming irritating. So what’s should a woman do? If you realize that you are guilty of calling, texting or emailing him multiple times per day, then realize that you’ll soon overwhelm him and make him want to hear from you less, and perhaps even not at all. If you maintain your mystery and let him do most of the calling then you just may find your man a little more enthusiastic about calling or emailing you back!
2. Being Too Clingy
It’s great that you enjoy spending time with your boyfriend, but sometimes you’re not just spending time with him, but being needy instead. If you don’t want to do anything by yourself or spend time with your friends because you’d rather be with him all day, then he’ll likely feel that you want him to provide for you emotionally in a way that he isn’t capable of. It’s normal for couples to want to spend a lot of time together, especially in the early stages of a relationship where everything is fresh and new, but after a while, every man needs to see that the woman he loves has the ability to maintain and create other relationships that can be fulfilling.
So if you find yourself complaining because he wants to spend time alone or hang out with his friends, try to stop. Instead remember this dating advice: use this time apart for a little “me time” for yourself. If you spend some time apart, you’ll have lots to share the next time you see each other.
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