We all know of the girls that date and fall in love with jerks again and again again, appearing to choose the worst of the lot. They get hurt and abused and let down time upon time. What is happening here? Do their brains have a missing switch that causes their discernment to close?
What if when she was a child her primary male figure abused her, maybe sexually or verbally, or simply deserted her, leaving her and her mum to fend for themselves? The man may have left physically or totally checked out emotionally. When this happens in a woman’s younger life she has a deep, emotional organisation that being loved equals being abused in the style of her abuser.
Later along in life she is just about compulsively driven to find someone that will treat her in the way her abuser treated her because in her mind, that is the only possible way she will experience love. She is literally programmed to go out and find these folks on the subconscious level. In any other eventuality, she's incapable of feeling loved. Remember, to her love equals abuse. To be loved one must find someone who will abuse her. It’s as if she is driven to execute a P. C. programme that runs under the surface, without the user even being aware it is operating. It's not her fault. What is she able to do?
Here's a simple strategy that anyone can use to hook up with the Universal Energy of Creation to witness and ask that this sort of limiting and enfeebling belief be pulled and replaced with one that will actually work for the individual.
It’s simple and easy and has fast results without her having to make changes in the typical way, with willpower. She simply and naturally begins to behave differently, as a totally new realm of decisions appear. To try this, all you've got to know is ways to connect and the way to ask for these changes in a clear exact way and watch God (or the Universe, Tao, or whatever you want to call that energy) do the work for you.
Both men and women can use this method, which can often be applied to physical illness, emotional pain and non secular anguish, since everything that we experience in our lives is governed by these comatose belief systems. If you'd like to know how and what it feels like to do and be the following, just say yes! out loud right now and these downloads will come energetically into you irrespective of where you're now or when you are studying this article.
I know how and what it feels like to be loved without being abused.
I know how and what it feels love to be in a relationship that is loving and supportive in a healthy balanced demeanour.
I know how and what it feels like to choose an enchanting partner that will respect me and my bounds.
I know how and what if feels like to pardon myself for the choices I have made during the past.
I do forgive myself for the choices I have made during the past.
After you have learned how to try this wonderful system it's like you've taken the red tablet in the flick The Matrix and you can let go of being the victim and start assuming responsibility for your life in a way you never thought attainable. It offers hope where there was none. It’s changed the course of my life.
Lela Parker is a relationship advice expert and specialist of Neuro Linguistic Programming.
