You are about to discover a very effective flirting technique.
Once you learn it, you’ll be able to flirt with a girl and cause her to feel very attracted to you. (To learn more about
ike-when-and-how-often-to-text-her/">when to text a girl you just met, check out my article on what to talk about with a girl while texting.)
Are you ready to hear what it is? This mysterious flirting technique is called the “Push Pull”
The ides behind Push Pull flirting techniques is that if you show too much interest in a girl (i.e. give her too many compliments, being to available) she will eventually become disinterested because you are no longer a challenge.
On the other end, if you are too aloof and uninterested, she will get tired of it too and eventually leave to go find some other guy who will give her more attention.
But magic can happen when you strike the perfect balance between showing her interest and pulling away and making her wonder. She will be constantly off balance, not knowing if you like her or not.
This quality is very attractive to a woman. By making her wonder about you, she will find herself thinking about you all the time. This will build attraction.
The analogy I like to use is that of a cat playing with a piece of string.
Imagine you are holding a piece of string and dangling it in from of a cat. If you hold the string too far out of the cat’s reach, it will lose interest and just start to lick itself.
On the other hand, if you let the cat have the string too easily, it will get bored and once again, walk away.
However, if you were to dangle the string just bare out of the cat’s reach, but close enough that it is tantalized by it, the cat will go crazy trying to get the string.
This is how you want to be flirting with a girl. You want to hint at the fact that you are interested in her and give her some attention. But at the same time tease her and make her work for you attention.
Most guys, who do not know proper flirting techniques, tends to a have problem with being too nice and too complimentary to a girl, especially to a girl that you like, so the best way to re-adjust is to add in some teasing and takeaways flirting techniques.
Now all you have to do is check out my personal blog at texting girls and take advantage of all the helpful lessons I have created over there and learn all you need to learn about how to flirt with a girl over text.
