The strain of approaching a lady can be daunting. The anxiety can show in your actions and your words. The pressure may be too much to bear particularly if you can’t think of anything cool to say. Moreover, you get the feeling that you are going to be rejected anyway. You have no idea how t
If you have been through this experience before, you have what is termed approach anxiety. Even if it’s not impossible to treat this, it would take time. Even the veteran players still feel this around ladies, believe it or not. What you need to do is study how to approach ladies even when you’re nervous about it.
Allow me to share some strategies.
1. Assume an Open Body Language
There are different kinds of people around in a bar. When you get there, you do not know anyone so you sit by yourself with your drink. Take a few minutes to look around, after which you’ve to get up and socialize. In a crowded nightclub, people are expected to mingle. Social interaction is the name of the game.
Ladies are looking at you. Your actions are being observed. If you stay in one place alone, you’ll give the impression that you are anti-social. Nobody wants to be around a guy who is obviously drowning in his sorrows. You can start meeting girls by being open to social interaction. Be more approachable even when everybody around is a stranger.
2. Eye Contact
Making eye contact with another person is easy. The hard part is knowing what to do once you have made eye contact with a woman. A woman would either give you a passive look or a receptive look. A passive look is when you look in a specific direction and you accidentally lock eyes with someone. This means you’re not really planning on speaking with that person and your look goes somewhere else. In the case of a responsive look, your eyes convey your desire to approach a girl. When you make this type of contact, the ladies gets an idea of what you plan to do next. If you plan to come up to the girl, you just gave a signal by meeting her eye.
Eye contact will also give you a chance to assess the other person’s self confidence. It’s possible to feel ill at ease after being stared at in a meaningful way. It’s not always a given that a lady is more confident just because guys are approaching her. This should tell you that you are not the only one tense about the interaction.
3. Smile
The intensity of the eye contact is magnetic enough to make a girl flush. The feeling of being stared at with a meaningful gaze can be daunting. Smiling can soften the intensity and result in a warm feeling. Your friendliness comes through when you smile. It’s like your whole face lights up, and she cannot help but smile back.
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