How to Tell if She Wants You

Posted on 8th February 2012 in Dating Tips

Have you ever talked to a woman and got confused because she’s giving you mixed signals? The question in your mind is “does she want me”. Maybe she is just being coy or she’s playing hard to get. More guys have gone insane and lost sleep over this than any other dilemma in

dating. If you are in a slump, here are some tips on how to find out if she wants you.

Body Language Signs

If you are meeting a lady for the first time, check out the way she looks at you. The top to toe look is an indicator of awareness. She could be taking in your appearance and wondering how you would look naked. Yes, it’s highly likely that she is thinking the same thing you are wondering when you meet a beautiful girl for the very first time.

You also need to be vigilant about the way she looks at you sideways. If a girl does not want you to know she is checking you out, she does this. She may also touch her hair or tuck a strand in. It’s not that a lock is out of place from her head. She’s feeling conscious of your presence. The same thing applies when you approach a woman and she seems to sit up straighter.

Ladies are discrete when it comes to showing signs of attraction. It could be a touch on your arm when she wants to ask something. She may pinch you gently when you say something that she thinks is hilarious. Do not be scared to touch back when she starts being touchy feely with you.

Verbal Signals

When she asks nosy questions, she’s either a private investigator or she’s interested in you. Prying questions include the very delicate ones like if you have a girlfriend or a spouse. Normally, a girl wouldn’t ask if you have a girlfriend if she isn’t attracted.

One indicator of interest is giggling. Girls do this for a variety of reasons, but they only do it because they are enjoying the company of the guy they are speaking with. Her actions would tell you what you need to know even when she claims she is not into you or you’re not her type.

Following the First Meeting

Keeping in touch means there’s something there you can pursue. The point here is, a woman could flake out after the initial meeting. You should keep yourself from calling her until she responds. How do you keep connected? Through texting, of course. Texting will never reveal your edginess, unlike a phone call.

Text her on the first day and do not worry if she does not text back right away. If she does not text back after a few days, you can safely assume that she has changed her mind. It’s just that she may have connected with someone else. In this instance, move on and find another girl to banter with.

For more helpful tidbits, please visitFlirting Advice for Men; optionally you can also visitGet the Girl Method.

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