Having the right mindset when you talk to girls can make a huge different. If you get it right, you’ll be able to just know all the right things to say.
But if you don’t get this right, you will just keep on struggling. And even if you manage to think of something good t
That just comes to show you how useful the right mindset can be.
A mindset is a set of ideas and belief that you hold in your head and it dictates everything that you think and do.
Here is the right texting mindset for how to text a girl.
Take on the attitude that you text messages are brightening up her day. You are adding value to her life and making it more fun that it was before.
Although you are not going to do it by being super overly nice and kiss her ass. Remember, you are a high status man of value and you are doing her a favor by texting her and adding value to her life.
Think to yourself, “How would I act if I had 10 hot, beautiful girls in my life and I had my pick of any of them?”
Would you stress out if she didn’t respond to your text right away? Would you sit by the phone and check it every 30 seconds to see if she has gotten back to you?
You still got other things in your life you need to worry about.
You could care less if she texts you back or not. Heck! She could be fighting World War III over there and that’s why she can’t text you back yet. Or maybe she’s just not interested in you. Either way, you don’t take it personally and you stay cool.
Remember, you are deciding if this girl is cool enough for you to hang out with. If it turns out that she’s not, then that’s fine too.
And if you happened to be doing something when she texts you, don’t just drop whatever it is that you were doing just to text her back. Take you’re time. You got other things to do.
Internalize these beliefs and they will become natural.
When you can adopt this mindset when talking and interacting with girls, you will be able to think of the right thing to say, without having to force anything. As a result, you will see your success with women go way up.