The Right Mindset To Be In When You Text A Girl

Posted on 21st April 2012 in Dating Tips

Having the right mindset when you talk to girls can make a huge different. If you get it right, you’ll be able to just know all the right things to say.

But if you don’t get this right, you will just keep on struggling. And even if you manage to think of something good t

o say, it won’t come across right and she will sense it. (To learn more about pua text game, check out my article on what to text a girl about.)

That just comes to show you how useful the right mindset can be.

A mindset is a set of ideas and belief that you hold in your head and it dictates everything that you think and do.

Here is the right texting mindset for how to text a girl.

Take on the attitude that you text messages are brightening up her day. You are adding value to her life and making it more fun that it was before.

Although you are not going to do it by being super overly nice and kiss her ass. Remember, you are a high status man of value and you are doing her a favor by texting her and adding value to her life.

Think to yourself, “How would I act if I had 10 hot, beautiful girls in my life and I had my pick of any of them?”

Would you stress out if she didn’t respond to your text right away? Would you sit by the phone and check it every 30 seconds to see if she has gotten back to you?

No way!

You still got other things in your life you need to worry about.

You could care less if she texts you back or not. Heck! She could be fighting World War III over there and that’s why she can’t text you back yet. Or maybe she’s just not interested in you. Either way, you don’t take it personally and you stay cool.

Remember, you are deciding if this girl is cool enough for you to hang out with. If it turns out that she’s not, then that’s fine too.

And if you happened to be doing something when she texts you, don’t just drop whatever it is that you were doing just to text her back. Take you’re time. You got other things to do.

Internalize these beliefs and they will become natural.

When you can adopt this mindset when talking and interacting with girls, you will be able to think of the right thing to say, without having to force anything. As a result, you will see your success with women go way up.

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3 Common Mistakes You Should NEVER Make When Texting women

Posted on 18th April 2012 in Dating Tips

If you want to learn about how to flirt through texting and es-for-success-when-texting-girls/">text message etiquette dating, you’ve come to the right place.

When it comes to texting girls, most guys make a lot of bad mistakes.

The sad thing is, most of the time, these mistakes are very easily avoidable. In fact, there are 3 very common, yet very deadly mistakes that guys often make.

I’m going to tell you what they are and also how to fix them. Try to spot which one you are guilty of.

Lets get started…

Text Game Mistake #1: Texting Her Too Often Without A Reply

Do not send her multiple messages until she responded to your first one. The only exception is when your first message did not get delivered and your phone gives you an error message.

Barring that, this is an important rule that you should always follow.

Why, you ask?

Because by breaking this rule, you are making yourself come off as a needy guy. She has meet lots of guys who have done this in the past and the results have not been good.

Girls HATE needy guys!

The shift the power over to her. The more you do this, the less attractive you will seem to her.

Just remember, you just met this girl. Just relax and take it easy.

Text Game Mistake #2: Being Boring With The First Text That You Send Her

With texting, first impression is very important. The first message you send will be the one that cause her to decide whether or not to reply back. It’s almost like an advertisement.

Most guys make the first message they send out look like this:

“Hi, this is John from the club last night. It was really cool meeting you last night…blah blah blah.”

Don’t do that! It too vanilla and doesn’t stir any emotion.

Here’s something you need to remember…

You Are NOT At The Top Of Her List!

OK, that was a little harsh. Sorry about that.

But listen, the truth is, the girl (especially if she’s hot) probably gave her numbers out to a bunch of different guys last night (girls do that.) That means she will probably not remember you. And if she doesn’t know who you are, why would she reply?

A better way would be to say something that will get her back into that head space that she was in when she met you. Something like…

“Wow, do you remember that fight last night? I’m still laughing my ass off. – Henry”


“Wow. Now I know who you look like”

This last statement is a guarantee attention grabber because girls are always curious about the way the look.

Also, in this message, you are also using another technique called callback humor to get her to remember the positive feelings she had when she met you. More on this in the future.

Text Game Mistake #3: Being Too Formal

You are trying to maintain a playful mood. So don’t send her messages like…

“Dear Stacey, I’m really glad we had a chance to talk last night and I had a very pleasant time…”

Instead as yourself how you would talk to your friends. Be playful, teasing, and fun. Don’t be afraid to use slang, misspellings, and choppy sentences.

For example, a normal text like, “How is your day going?” could be said in a more fun and less formal way like…

“Wow, I just had the craziest day. I don’t think you can top it. How’s yours going?”

This also makes her a little curious.

It’s much easier to escalate things to a sexual level if you start off with a playful and teasing dynamic.

Now you might be thinking that you’d never make these stupid mistakes, but I can’t tell you how many guys I’ve seen repeatedly make these text game mistakes and…

Destroy Their Chances To Sleep With So Many Hot Girls

Don’t make the same mistakes. The pitfalls that I’ve mentioned might sound simple but by avoid them, you can double or triple your chances with a girl.

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How Often Should You Text A Girl

Posted on 23rd March 2012 in Dating Tips

One of the things that a lot of guys have questions with is when they should text a girl that they just met. And how often they should text her.

Well, in this article, you’ll finally have these questions answered. (To learn more about ow-and-what-to-text-a-girl/how-to-text-a-girl-you-like-when-and-how-often-to-text-her/">if a girl doesn’t text you back, check out my article on what to talk about with a girl while texting.)

So, how often should you text a girl?

First off let me just say that I know how easy it can be to get all worked up about how to text message girls you like. You get really excited and want to text her every chance you get.

But the issue with doing that is that you are investing to much emotion into the interaction too soon. That will only hurt your chances of creating attraction with the girl. Instead, just stay cool and collected.

The important thing is to keep it balanced. Don’t over do the texting. Even if you find that the girl is texting you back, this could still make you come of as a little needy.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying you should never text a girl back. I just want you to mix it up a little. Don’t just text her back right away.

Here’s another tip for you to consider. Try to let her have the last text message.

Yep. When you can manage it, leave her hanging by ending the conversation with her message being the last one. Don’t be rude about it. Just pick a good point where you can just end the conversation.

Also, if she takes about 15 minutes to text you back, you want to take about the same amount of time to respond to her text.

I know it sound a little childish, but this is the dating game. And they don’t call it a game for no reason.

One more thing. Don’t text a girl from 8PM to 1AM on a Friday or Saturday.

This is because those are the hour when you are suppose to be out having fun. Texting her will just make it seem like you are just sitting at home.

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